by Rosamund Stone Zander and Benjamin Zander, Penguin Books, 2002
“So the
practices presented in this book are not about making incremental changes that
lead to new ways of doing things based on old beliefs, and they are not about
self-improvement.
They are geared
instead toward causing a total shift of posture, perceptions, beliefs, and
thought processes. They are about
transforming your entire world.
(Rosamund and Benjamin Zander)
(Rosamund and Benjamin Zander)
The Art of Possibility is a book that has been
on my shelf for years, but this was the summer it spoke to me. In it, Rosamund Zander, a family therapist,
and her husband Benjamin Zander, an orchestra conductor, offer twelve practices
for transforming professional and personal life. They suggest ways to revise the perceived
expectations of the world and rewrite one’s life narrative to one of purpose
and possibility. Four of their practices
struck me as imminently transformative as we approach the new school year. The others are valuable also, and can be
found in the book and in the summary links below.
“Giving an A”
Let’s
first consider this question the Zanders ask, “What were to happen if one were
to hand an A to every student from the start?”
To
combat students’ anxiety over grades and performance, Ben Zander made this
announcement to his Conservatory students on the first day of class: “Each
student in this class will get an A for the course.” There was one requirement. Students had to write him a detailed letter,
dated in the spring—months away—in which they detailed “the story of what will
have happened to you by next May that is in line with this extraordinary grade….”
I
can already hear naysayers offering downsides to this optimistic plan. Yet, I see the wisdom of this transformative offer. Might it allow students and teachers to discover
how to work as teammates, rather than perceived adversaries? Could teachers brainstorm with students
collectively and individually, inviting them to share strategies for success
from past classes? Did they study for
assessments? How? Did they do their
homework? Where? Did they care about
their classes? Why? How did they
motivate themselves if they did not find the material interesting? Did they proofread? Did they do more work than was expected? Did they see the teacher for extra help? Did they ask questions? Did they overcome problems at home to succeed
at school? How?
Can
we teachers start the year by inviting our students to recognize and employ
their signature strengths to earn that “A?”
Can we help them assess whether they see themselves as being loyal,
honest, generous, friendly, determined, creative, detail-oriented,
big-picture-oriented, out-going, or introverted? Can we help them see how their perseverance, honesty,
loyalty, love of learning, love of people, and other qualities can help them
succeed in their school lives?
Is
offering the “A” an idea we should try this September?
“Leading from Any Chair”
As
teachers, we might well ask the same question about our students. Who can we be so that our children are
shining? This practice reminds me to pay
careful attention to each student in my care—not only the shining academic “stars,”
but also the quiet, gritty, “perseverers” and the seemingly disengaged. What are they really engaged in? How can that transform our class experience
together? What does each student have to
teach their peers and teacher about leadership?
Over
the course of the year, I frequently ask my students for feedback in various
forms. They know I mean it when I tell
them I need their feedback to be a better teacher. In quick classroom discussions, in private
conversations, on anonymous 3x5 cards, and via electronic programs, I seek and
take to heart their suggestions.
Students appreciate being part of the evaluation and learning process
and being recognized for the various ways in which they lead.
“It’s all Invented”
“What assumption am I
making,
That I’m not aware I’m making,
That gives me what I see?”
That I’m not aware I’m making,
That gives me what I see?”
And
the next question is:
“What might I now
invent,
That I haven’t yet
invented,
That would give me other
choices?”
Our
school worlds and lives are riddled with assumptions about “the way we’ve
always done things,” or “the way those students behave,” and on and on. How can we approach this year with new eyes,
ready to see the possibility in beginning our classes more mindfully than we
have done in the past? Can we invent
ways to overcome our biases towards and against students of various
backgrounds? See resources below to help
in this lifelong process.
“Being a Contribution”
“Throw
yourself into life as someone who makes a difference, accepting that you may
not understand how or why.” Ben and Roz
Zander offer this practice to help us overcome self-judgement and the judgement
of others. Rather, they suggest we can
see ourselves as contributors who make a difference in the lives of those
around us. No matter how small the
difference—or how large or long-lasting—we make an impact, and this
purposefulness is healthy and growth oriented.
One
of my peace education mentors, Irwin Abrams, recharged my batteries when I doubted
my ability to make a difference. “What do I answer those who criticize peace
education as being too slow to be effective?” I asked. “What do I tell myself?”
is what I really wondered.
Swinging
his ninety-plus frame swiftly around, Irwin didn't miss a beat, “We work for the
unseen harvest. There are consequences” of the work we do.
There
are consequences of our every interaction with our students and colleagues. We can make a positive difference for each
one of them. September is coming. Let it be a time of transformation and
possibility!
Susan
Gelber Cannon, August 2017
Read
more about the authors:
· Rosamund Zander: http://www.rosamundzander.com/about-roz.php
· Benjamin Zander: http://benjaminzander.com
Good
summaries of the book are available
at the links below:
· James Clear’s short
summary: http://jamesclear.com/book-summaries/the-art-of-possibility
· Vishnu’s Virtue’s longer
summary, with quotes: http://www.vishnusvirtues.com/the-art-of-possibility/
For
more on growth mindset, read
· Carol Dweck’s Mindset: The New Psychology of Success (https://mindsetonline.com/index.html)
For
more on quiet people as leaders,
read
· Susan Cain’s Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World
that Can’t Stop Talking (http://www.quietrev.com/quiet-the-book/)
For
more on developing purpose, read
· William Damon’s The Path to Purpose: How Young People Can
Find Their Calling in Life (http://www.williamdamon.com/the-path-to-purpose/)
· and Martin Seligman’s Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of
Happiness and Well-being (http://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Flourish/Martin-E-P-Seligman/9781439190760)
For
more on bias and anti-bias strategies,
read
· Mazarin Banaji and
Anthony Greenwald’s Blindspot: Hidden
Biases of Good People (http://blindspot.fas.harvard.edu)
· and my blog summary with
classroom strategies: http://thinkcareact.blogspot.com/2017/02/
For
more on inviting student evaluation
of your teaching, read
· Susan Gelber Cannon’s Think, Care, Act: Teaching for a Peaceful
Future (http://www.teachforpeace.org/book)
For
more on transforming perceptions,
read
· Pema Chodron’s Practicing Peace in Times of War (http://pemachodronfoundation.org/product/practicing-peace-book/)
· and Thich Nhat Hanh’s Peace is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life
(https://plumvillage.org/books/peace-is-every-step/)